Do you need a love-pill?

Do you need a love-pill?

I recently read about the invention of a love-pill. Brian Earp, researcher at Oxford University’s Institute for Neuroethics, is working on magic pills to help you fall in and out of love(!) I was instantly transported back to Shakespeare’s midsummer night’s dream. Remember that story in which Titania (the queen of fairies) falls in love with Nick Bottom (the […]

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The Need For Psychological Games

The Need For Psychological Games

To be loved and accepted is a basic human need. As children we feel good about ourselves when we receive positive strokes from our environment. In the absence of which, we could enter into a pattern of behaviour to get these needs met. A series of well-crafted transactions could help the person get what he […]

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What programs our subconscious mind?

What programs our subconscious mind?

Most of our learning happened as little children. Our subconscious mind was programmed between the age of 0–7 years. This was the time when we could make very little sense of what was happening to us. Our filters were not established and everything that we heard about ourselves was swallowed straight in, may be due […]

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You are a nice person BUT….

You are a nice person BUT….

Have you noticed how a simple word can impact the meaning of what we are trying to say? The usage of the word BUT is interesting, especially while giving someone feedback. Look at these examples : “You are a nice person but you need to change the way you communicate” “You are a good cook but you can improve on […]

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Ulterior transactions — what’s beneath?

Ulterior transactions — what’s beneath?

Has it ever happened to you that someone complimented you for something and you wondered if it was genuine or sarcastic? Or may be someone said they were happy for you but didn’t really look happy? In ulterior transactions two messages are conveyed at the same time — a social message on top and the […]

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